We're so glad you're here
Welcome
You found us, so now what?
Attending your first lifestyle event is exciting, but can also be intimidating. We're here to walk you through it so you can have the best experience at The Key.

The first thing most people ask is, "Is this real?"
YES! We are happy to say, this is real. It's a real place with real people.
Some people feel it is too good to be true and must be a scam. It's not, but that is one reason we've created the Meet and Greet nights. You can RSVP and come to an event to check it out for free. If you're having fun, you can purchase a ticket to stay and play once you are here. We want everyone to feel comfortable.

The second thing most people want to know is what to expect, how it works and will I be welcome.
Fortunately and unfortunately every event is different and every person's experience is different, so it's hard to tell you exactly what to expect, but we can give you what the overall experience is like.
Most people arrive within the first hour, many arriving at the start of the event. People tend to mingle for about an hour and then begin to play. Play looks different for everyone. It is okay to watch and be watched. It's okay to be the center of attention and it is also okay to socialize and not participate at all. No one is required or even expected to play.
Here are a few questions we get asked often, so here is the SFAQ (super frequently asked questions)
What is the age range? 21 - 80 (with most people being in their 30's and 40's)
What do I wear? Dress to impress. Dress to the theme if there is one. Feel sexy and comfortable in what you're wearing.
Where do I park? There is plenty of street parking. (Larger events means you might have to park farther away)
Are drinks available? It's BYOB. We have soda for mixers.
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